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Britney Spears and the Law of Attraction

December 12th, 2009

Britney Spears. Oh the tongue-wagging that goes on in supermarket checkout lines these days as moms across America breathe a collective sigh, thankful (with the possible exception of the fame and the money) that Miss Spears is somebody else’s problem. Thankful that their daughters, while troublesome in their own right, haven’t reached the melting point of a Spears kid. (Little sister Jamie Lynn, 16, is reportedly expecting another little Spears.)

Aren’t we just full of ourselves; such great parents are we!

And didn’t you just love it when Momma Spears got her parenting book unceremoniously yanked from publication? Oh, the irony.

The most ironic thing, however, has absolutely nothing to do with the Spears family and what we perceive to be (actually, judge) their shortcomings. As a society, we are collectively making sport of their pain and are gleefully judging each failing move they make in order to validate and overlook our own mistake-filled worlds. This is classic Law of Attraction, but not in a good way.

Britney can be forgiven. She is a child who has grown up in a spotlight of cruelty, as everyone from the media, bus drivers, foreign governments, and fast food workers have “scornfully” weighed in on every negative stumble she has taken, impatient for the next chapter. It’s all nothing more than a heaping Roman helping of bread and circuses to them; to Britney Spears, it is her life.

So who or what is a Britney Spears? She is, like any of us, a product of all that surrounds her. She is human, and she is hurting. She is immature and foolish sometimes, and her demons are worn upon her sleeve for all to see. This makes her more honest than most. She tries, but without a level support system, she oftentimes fails. (That’s the part we like; it makes us feel so much better about ourselves!)

Britney Spears, besides fighting a hostile media and disingenuousness all around her, is also fighting a terrible disease. Whether she wins the fight, or is too tired to fight any longer, she remains in the boxing ring of alcoholism and drug abuse. I don’t think she even tries to hide it anymore.

We would look at her (judge her) in an entirely different light were she afflicted with cancer or leukemia; you know, an approvable disease. But no matter how much the medical field classifies substance abuse as a disease, it is still looked down upon and only becomes a disease when it is our own, or someone’s we care about.

So what is the answer, both for Britney as well as for us? Because to suggest the insatiable thirst of enjoying ringside seats with the downfall of the Spears family as the main event as anything but a two-way street is completely dishonest. We need Britney to fall, just as much as she needs us to take her by the hand and help her off the ground. Left to its own devices, this scenario has just one end, and look no farther than Anna Nicole Smith or Elvis if you want to know what that is. Then, when that happens, we’ll all enjoy 24-hour news cycle coverage as we again cluck our tongues and judge some more.

There is another alternative, however. And it will salve both sides of this sick fence.

The Law of Attraction promises that whatever we desire, as long as the feelings and thoughts are directed and true, that the Universe will provide us with whatever we want.

We have all wanted what we have gotten with the ongoing Spears train wreck, and this is true on both sides. We have attracted this, and so has Britney, her sister, their mother, all of the boyfriends, and all of the hangers-on who have profited from their misery. We have all been excellent attractors, and continue to do so as the game gets ratcheted up to the point that the next stop will be the Los Angeles County Coroners Office. How many have thought when Britney has permanently left the stage, Jamie Lynn Spears is waiting in the wings to assume the starring role. Haven’t we all had enough of this?

We deserve better of ourselves, and those two wonderful girls and their families deserve better, too. Let’s stop this now. We collectively created it; can we not turn it around and each enjoy life as it is meant to be enjoyed?

It’s not too late, and if by providence the Spears sisters read this article, please, girls, take your power back and refuse to be a part of this putrid pantomime and live! Live your lives and focus on your wonderful babies, your most beautiful creations ever. Use what the Universe gave you and live the Law of Attraction in a positive way. You’ve already proven how talented you are when it comes to manifesting the Law of Attraction; now it’s time to use it positively and reclaim your lives.

We can also want this for them, can’t we? We can want and think and feel the thoughts that will help them manifest this wonderful gift. Can’t we do that for them? And if not for them, can’t we wish it for their children?

The Law of Attraction is everyone’s gift from the Universe, and it is no less a gift for the girls who seemingly already have everything. The Law of Attraction is for Britney, too.

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Take the Law of Attraction Quiz Number One

November 16th, 2009

How well are you at applying the Law of Attraction? Take this little quiz to find out.

Law of Attraction Question 1: When you think of an upsetting experience from the past do you:

A. Run for the gallon of ice cream in the freezer

B. Continue to dwell on the experience over and over again

C. Realize that your past is the past and you have many more great experiences to look back on instead

Law of Attraction Question 2: Your friend from college, whom you haven’t seen in a few years, is coming by to see you. This is the friend that has achieved every goal that they have ever set. You feel:

A. Envious; you can’t believe how they have gotten everything they

have ever wanted and you haven’t

B. Anxious; you feel you haven’t done as well as your friend

C. Excited; you can’t wait to hear how they achieved everything they did so that you can get some tips

Law of Attraction Question 3: You’ve had a pretty hard day. When you go home you:

A. Call everyone you know to tell them what a bad day you had

B. Collapse on the couch and just hope tomorrow isn’t like today

C. Kick back and relax knowing that you created this day and you can create a better day tomorrow

Law of Attraction Question 4: You’re short for the rent this month. You:

A. Totally freak out and see yourself living on the street

B. Even though you told yourself you never would again, you call your mom and tell her your woes in the hope she will help out.

C. Visualize the rent paid and let the Universe take care of the ‘how’ it is paid, and then you trust the Universe and look for ways of making a few extra bucks.

Law of Attraction Question 5: The store parking lot is full. You ask the Universe for a front parking spot and one becomes available and you snatch it up. You:

A. Think it’s a coincidence

B. Are surprised that a parking spot came up

C. Knew a spot would be available and thank the Universe

Law of Attraction Question 6: You’ve been visualizing a perfect mate for yourself. He/she has certain physical features and qualities you want. At the movies, you meet a person that meets all the requirements you specified for a mate except isn’t at all like the physical you visualized. You:

A. Can’t believe your rotten luck; he/she was almost perfect

B. Don’t think you’ll give it a chance, it’s not exactly what you wanted

C. Give this person a chance because you know that the Universe always gives you exactly what you want or better

Law of Attraction Question 7: There is a long line at the post office and you’re at the end of it. You:

A. Sigh and complain to everyone around you that it is taking way too long

B. Get tense and frustrated

C. See yourself at the front of the line quickly and then take the remaining time in line to enjoy a mini-visualization of what you want in life

Law of Attraction Question 8: You have been visualizing a new car for yourself and you finally get it. You:

A. Can’t believe how much money you had to put down to get it

B. Start worrying about how you’re going to make the payments

C. Thank the Universe for the car and know that you can visualize anything and it is yours, including car payments

Law of Attraction Question 9: You go to the doctor and find out you have high blood pressure and he puts you on medication. You:

A. Call your best friend and tell her that, for the rest of your life, you’ll

be on medication for your high blood pressure because you know

that it will never go away

B. Go home and cry. You’re scared you’re going to have a heart attack

C. Take your high blood pressure medication and start a positive visualization of how you are in perfect health with normal blood pressure without medication, and trust the Universe to bring you what you want

Law of Attraction Question 10: You’ve been visualizing for many weeks. You have had signs, here and there, from the Universe telling you that it is working on your desired visualization. You:

A. Are impatient and frustrated, it’s taking way too long to get what you

want

B. Aren’t sure if the signs you are getting are big enough to constitute it

being a sign from the Universe

C. Are living joyously, knowing that your desire is here now and

you’re grateful for many things in your life everyday

If you answered with mostly A’s you are in some serious Law of Attraction trouble. Find someone who can impart the knowledge you’re lacking and get started right away. You’ll want to immediately break some of the mental behavior patterns that can slow you down.

If you answered with mostly B’s fear seems to be your primary challenge. Remember that fear is the thief of dreams. Work on overcoming your fear through the Law of Attraction.

If you answered with mostly C’s you are well on your way to attaining everything you desire. Keep up the great work with the Law of Attraction.

If you answered a mixture of A, B, and C, then you find yourself at a place that most of us are when we first learn of the Law of Attraction. Get busy and learn everything you can about this wonderful, universal gift and begin enjoying your life to the fullest!

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Law of Attraction: Yesterday is a Closed Book

October 31st, 2009

If we change our outlook on our past experiences, is it possible that our desires will come quicker to us through the Law of Attraction? Your past experiences are a direct link to what you are experiencing today.

We all have past experiences that affect our lives. When we think back about a wonderful thought in our childhood, we feel secure and happy. But when we think on a past experience that was traumatic, we feel insecure and upset. In the Law of Attraction, the more you focus on a particular thought and feeling, the quicker the Universe will attract what you are emitting back to you.

When you focus on anything for a period of time, the subject of your focus begins to have a life of its own. As you focus and feel more and more on the same want or desire, the Universe takes its cue and brings what you are feeling focusing on to you. For example: Let’s say you had a relationship trauma as a young adult. Even though you are an older adult now, you still think about that experience. It was a time that was hurtful to you so every time you begin to attract a serious relationship, you discover that you can’t help but think, focus on, and return to that one terrible experience. But the more and more you think on and feel that experience, the more you will attract that kind of experience back into your life.

Why do you think people tend to repeat negative behavior patterns? They continue over and over again to relive past experiences, and when you do that, the Universe sends more of it to you. The Universe isn’t being unkind; the Universe is doing its job. It’s taking its cue from you through what you focus on and feel strongly about.

So how does one stop the repetitive thoughts and feelings? By starting new as often as you have to. Yesterday is a closed book. You don’t have to relive past experiences. When you think of a past experience that may not have been pleasant, do your best to separate from the experience itself while learning what you want or don’t want from that experience. Then let the experience go. It served its purpose but you can let it go. You are hurting your own self by hanging on to it. If you find it isn’t easy for you to let go, then play this game with yourself: When that traumatic experience surfaces in your memory, change the experience to what you would have wanted it to be. Take the whole situation and visualize how you wish it would have happened. By doing this, you can change your focus to the positive (as well as your feelings) and you will be creating better days for the future. By changing the past, even if it is only within your mind, something miraculous happens. Your heart becomes freer because of the hope of what could have been, and you create wonderful feelings about a situation that was once a negative focus for you. When you create those great feelings, your tomorrows will become days of ease and security.

By focusing on the joyous moments and gratitude now, you will bank good feelings that the Universe will work towards bringing to you. When you close the book of Yesterday, especially on the past’s not so great experiences, you will find that life becomes much smoother and easier.

But what about the wonderful experiences of the past? Wonderful past experiences are good ways to get the ‘happy’ thoughts going. Use the experiences for the good feelings generated from them.

What we do is this: We take a past experience and capture the feelings, not the experience, and then transfer the good feelings to what we currently want out of life. By using this method, you will have a great emotion attached to a current-day-focus that will be your true experience in your future.

Use this method to give up the hurtful past and then concentrate on a beautiful tomorrow for yourself and your loved ones. It works!

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Law of Attraction Book Camp

October 16th, 2009

The Law of Attraction has been labeled as part of a New Age movement, and the labelers have said there is no grounding within the Law of Attraction or that it is just a way to escape from the world. They believe that we believe that all one has to do is to lay around and dream and it all shows up on the doorstep.

Nothing could be further from the truth. There is work to be done when applying the Law of Attraction, but the work is worth it.

Here are a few constants when it comes to the Law of Attraction, in no particular order.

Law of Attraction Constant #1: Be specific in what you focus on. Why does it matter? Because the Universe brings you exactly what you desire, or better. If you give the Universe a foggy picture, it will have to fill in the blanks, your desire will be not what you wanted but instead could be a distorted version of it.

Law of Attraction Constant #2: See what you want in the now. If you have a desire that you are focusing on and you see it in the future (Example: You visualize on a particular vacation you want and you see it happening in the future) then it will stay in the future. Visualize like you are living it or having it now. Then the now will become your future.

Law of Attraction Constant #3: Repetition. Visualize everyday. This is important. You want to keep a clear focused image of what you desire going at all times. Each time you visualize, your desire is being directed out into the Universe and the picture and vibration becomes clearer and clearer until the day it is physically before you. Repetition replete with the ‘good feeling’ emotions will bring you what you desire that much quicker.

Law of Attraction Constant #4: Don’t micro manage the Universe. When you live day to day and you think of your desires, make sure you only see the end result of those desires. The how should be left up to the Universe. The Universe knows all of the unknown ways to attract your desire to you. If you visualize but also try to create how it happens, than you are pigeonholing the Universe into just doing it your way. By doing this, it may take much longer for the Universe to match your vibrations. But if you let the how be taken care of by the Universe you can live in the knowledge that your desire is here now.

Law of Attraction Constant #5: Find your purpose, what you enjoy doing, and the money will follow. Most people want to focus on the money, money, money. There is nothing wrong with that, but an easier method (and far more fulfilling method) to acquire money is to learn what your purpose is in life. Discover what you enjoy doing. Ask the question: What would you work at 24-7 and still enjoy? When you find what you believe your calling is, opportunities will come knocking at your door with the requisite financial answers. Find your purpose. The purpose doesn’t have to be spiritual in nature; just find what you love to do and could do everyday and make money at it which will allow you to take care of everything you desire in life.

Law of Attraction Constant #6: Living in joy. It’s true what they say: Money won’t bring you happiness. Be happy first and the money will follow. When you say that you will be happy when you have money, you’re implying that only money will make you happy. Live in the joy of life now. Be happy and grateful with your life now. Find small things to be grateful for if you have to. You can live in happiness before your big windfall arrives. And by living in joy now, you are creating a joyous future because all of your ‘today’ thoughts are creating your future life.

These constants are merely the tip of the iceberg as it pertains to the Law of Attraction. It takes time and some deconstructing of your past, then the reconstruction of your current thoughts to attract what you desire, but it is worth the effort in order to have the life you truly deserve.

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